JackSaintsworth 2016-09-19 23:36:12

It's alright man, don't worry. The way you feel right now, you've probably felt before. And you probably look back on the past and think "This is worse than that, I never had problems this bad before" or something similar, and 10 years from now, you're going to do the same. It's not that things go any worse, it's just a matter of perspective. When there is nothing bad going on, it's a lot less noticeable because you're feelings are neutral, rather than negative. These feelings will pass in time, and you'll look back on this time in your life as something you got through. It happens to everyone, most people are just very good at hiding it. I know it's not the best method for optimistic thinking, but try to think of all the things that are GOOD about your life, or that could be a lot worse, and you'll realize that sometimes our day-to-day problems aren't that serious in the grand scheme of things. In fact, the way I look at it, we're on a giant rock floating through the infinite expanse of space, and by some miracle you get to experience life, and from that perspective, problems that wont be a problem in a week, or a month, or even a year, seem so minuscule. Keep your head up, and keep moving forward. If anything, do it to spite fate for messing with you.

DiamondEclipse 2016-09-20 04:39:29

Don't worry, I've had worse when my family was poor, I was underweight at age of 8 and I barely even had any clothes
But there was one solution to my problems, I had no time to be depressed and started doing, I started by leaving my abusive parents, have been stolen by some street gang and they accepted me afterward for bieng in such bad shape,they've trained me and after couple years I became a street gang member too, until I got jailed
After 2 years in prison, I started a new life, found a job in a diner and got enough money to buy food, I was living in a diner tho.... Long story short, I was a very successful man afterwards and that street gang training gave me the power to defend myself, cause I had alot of mugging attempts and all of them failed

But anyways, no time to be depressed, you need to start doing and prove that you're a man

Zhon 2016-09-20 16:00:34

Jack is right. One of the first things you learn studying psychology is that we, as a race, tend to marginalize our feelings of happiness, but amplify our feelings of unhappiness, especially so the younger we are (think about how toddlers go on hour-long temper tantrums over silly things...). Life's a tough but rewarding place - it only gets easier and more rewarding the more you work to overcome the bad things and focus on the good.

Chin up and keep being awesome :)

DiamondEclipse 2016-09-21 00:06:16

@Zhon No, I disagree with you
Taking attention to good things won't fix anything, everyone is bieng too positive. When in reality it won't fix any problems, unless he starts fixing his problems the moment he gets them. Bieng positive is useless, Fixing problems is a success in life.

Life is a bitch, but you must become a pimp to control your life and life will reward you better

Zhon 2016-09-21 03:00:13

@DiamondEclipse I did say tackling your problems is a key part to being happy, but I wholeheartedly disagree with your sentiment that positivity is useless. I am of course speaking from a scientific standpoint here. Someone who is too cynical to appreciate positive things is a whole different story and needs a lot more work than just "kick your problem's ass and go buy a slushie"

demon1000 2016-09-21 03:13:13

guys guys, Calm Down alright? both of the things you guys Said Is helping me. . . I'm A little Down, But i will be alright probably next Week. . . i'm Just having deep thoughts for the moment and i might be in my normal mood pretty soon. . . don't want anyone to start a fight in this thread. . .

Thank you guys for the helpful words. . .I am feeling a bit better. . .
@Zhon @DiamondEclipse @JackSaintsWorth

CaptKirky 2016-09-26 15:46:38

Aw buttercups!! :( Im sorry life has got you down at the moment. Ive been there alot this past like year so as much of a pain as it is to say (and as cliche) it will get better love. Keep your head up high. Youve always got your peeps here on NG if you ever need to talk.

<3